you have to do to prepare for your event is wearing you out already. Do yourself a favor and take the stress out so you get to enjoy your holidays too. Keep in mind that plans can be simple. Perhaps choose not to put all your decorations out this year. The traditional spread your Grandmother used to do will most likely take you several days. Scaling back on the amount of dishes and even choosing some healthier options could benefit you. Ask for help! Delegate to your family and guests to participate in the meals and clean up. Get out and go for walks! Taking healthy space from others is helpful to your nervous system and will bring you back to being present and enjoying the moments, making your memories that much more special. Remember you get to enjoy the time off as well as everyone else.